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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.

'DO YOU LOVE ME?'

‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...

Michaela Patel

Feb 12, 20173 min read

SELF-QUESTIONING

Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...

Michaela Patel

Jan 11, 20172 min read

YOUR INNER TRUTH

Wisdom is a deep inner Truth. It is the voice of our Soul and has nothing to do with knowledge. We know and FEEL this truth as a deep...

Michaela Patel

Oct 22, 20163 min read

THE MYTH OF FORGIVENESS

Forgiveness is an act of LOVE, as much as holding onto resentment is an act of FEAR. So let me explain... When we forgive, we say 'I...

Michaela Patel

Sep 20, 20162 min read

FEAR OR LOVE?

ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...

Michaela Patel

Sep 17, 20163 min read

BECOME YOUR THERAPIST

To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...

Michaela Patel

Aug 24, 20166 min read

RELATIONSHIP BUBBLE

All we strive for, since a very young age, is to be in a relationship. We are driven by what relationship REPRESENTS, rarely questioning...

Michaela Patel

Aug 11, 20163 min read

LIFE SHAKE-UP

Midlife crisis? Divorce? Anxiety? Panic attacks? Extreme dissatisfaction with life? Depression? Whatever you call it, it is your SOUL...

Michaela Patel

Jul 12, 20164 min read

THE INSECURE JUDGE

First mirrors, dated to around 6000BC, were just polished pieces of volcanic stones. Manufactured glass mirrors first appeared in Venice...

Michaela Patel

Jul 8, 20163 min read

IN-TUITION - YOUR BEST FRIEND

What is intuition? It is a subconscious KNOWING we become aware of consciously in a split second, without understanding logically how. To...

Michaela Patel

Jun 19, 20163 min read

BORROWED LIFE PURPOSE

Most of what we own, has been owned by someone else before us, and will be owned by another the moment we leave this world. All that we...

Michaela Patel

Jun 12, 20164 min read

MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL

Do you think good looking people are happier? Think again! The advertising industry certainly hammers this into our subconscious daily,...

Michaela Patel

May 28, 20164 min read

SELF-TALK ON LOVE & WORTH

A typical conversation of our insecure Self with our mature, wise Self, as most of us have experienced it. Which out of these two voices...

Michaela Patel

May 2, 20167 min read

SOUL ECOLOGY

Using our energy wisely is crucial for getting far. Far meaning feeling happy, and be precisely where we want to be. Anyone who wishes to...

Michaela Patel

Apr 30, 20164 min read

WATCH OVER YOURSELF

The more you observe yourself the more of a habit it becomes. And the more you do that, the more you get to know yourself. If you do not...

Michaela Patel

Apr 27, 20164 min read

THE SELF-LOVE ARROW

Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...

Michaela Patel

Apr 24, 20164 min read

HIDING TRUE YOU?

We love to communicate through on-line social media when searching for new relationships. We prefer chatting to multiple people from our...

Michaela Patel

Apr 22, 20165 min read

AN APOLOGY TO MY BODY

My dearest Friend, I have a confession to make... I feel really guilty for how I have treated you all this time. I feel so so bad for how...

Michaela Patel

Apr 19, 20163 min read

RE-FOCUS

I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...

Michaela Patel

Apr 14, 20164 min read

MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?

My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...

Michaela Patel

Mar 30, 20163 min read