UNDERSTANDING THE REALITY OF MANIPULATION: WHY YOU ARE NOT THE CAUSE OF HIS ABUSE
Understand the reality of hidden abuse of women
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
- Sep 8
- 6 min
THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
The dynamics of women dating an immature partner
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 25
- 7 min
HOW EASY IS IT TO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
An analysis of why it isn't easy to leave a chronically abusive relationship
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Michaela Patel
- May 18
- 7 min
UNCOVERING THE IDENTITIES OF VICTIMS AND PERPETRATORS OF COERCIVE CONTROL: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
Uncovering the identities of victims and perpetrators of coercive control: what you need to know
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 17
- 10 min
ARE YOU BEING COERCIVELY CONTROLLED BY YOUR PARTNER?
Few years ago, I would have not understood such question. And even if I would have heard about the term I would have assumed it isn't...
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Michaela Patel
- Nov 11, 2023
- 7 min
DEALING WITH A HIGH CONFLICT PERSONALITY
A practical example of dealing with a high conflict, controlling personality.
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Michaela Patel
- Nov 11, 2023
- 7 min
ARE YOU DEALING WITH AN ENTITLED, DIFFICULT PERSON?
A deep dive into the psyche of an entitled, difficult person and how manipulation works the untrained mind.
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 11, 2023
- 6 min
COVERT AGGRESSION 2
What is covert abuse and why are we prone to enmeshment with manipulative, controlling partners?
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 11, 2023
- 5 min
COVERT AGGRESSION 1
What is covert control? What kind of partners do covert aggressors pick and why? What makes us prone to endure abuse?
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 27, 2021
- 4 min
TOUGHEN YOUR CORE - NURTURE YOU
All actions ever taken by humans point either towards love, or the lack of it. The latter leads to hurt rollover for many generations and...
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 28, 2020
- 6 min
CONTROLLING RELATIONSHIPS - HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES
How does control and abuse come about? Restore your sanity and rescue your happiness!
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 19, 2020
- 3 min
PATRIARCHY HANDCUFFS - WHY IS PATRIARCHY BAD FOR EVERYONE
Why is patriarchy bad for everyone?
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 10, 2020
- 4 min
WOBBLY PARENTING - THE COMMON MISTAKES OF PARENTING AND HOW THEY SHAPE OUR CHILDREN
I am a loving, deeply caring, for most parts aware parent who every so often feels like total failure... Any truly responsible parent...
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 13, 2020
- 4 min
YOUR INNER COMPASS - REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 11, 2019
- 5 min
WHERE IS THE TRUTH? - HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARE AND FAIR
What limits our ability to reach an agreement with our partner and when it is in our best interest to disengage?
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 1, 2019
- 5 min
UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIPS AND SELF-SABOTAGE - HOW DO WE UNKNOWINGLY SABOTAGE OUR HAPPINESS?
The topic of a relationship self-sabotage typically describes a conscious efforts of an individual to end a relationship. However, a...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 1, 2019
- 5 min
WHY DO WE HAVE NIGHTMARES?
Why do we have nightmares and how we benefit from understanding their messages?
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 22, 2018
- 3 min
ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
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Michaela Patel
- May 23, 2018
- 3 min
THE JAR OF HEARTS 2 - HOW TO FILL UP YOURS?
First, you must re-define selfishness. So far you’ve been told (and believed!) that selfishness is putting you first. Yet, putting you...
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