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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
THE JAR OF HEARTS 2 - HOW TO FILL UP YOURS?
First, you must re-define selfishness. So far you’ve been told (and believed!) that selfishness is putting you first. Yet, putting you...
Michaela Patel
May 23, 20183 min read
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THE JAR OF HEARTS 1 - WHY DO WE FEEL EMPTY?
Imagine your heart as a glass jar. It is filled with sweets. Love hearts if you like. Your jar is full to the brim and it is hard to keep...
Michaela Patel
Apr 23, 20183 min read
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SELF-WORTH AND RELATIONSHIPS
Do you have a healthy self-esteem? How does low self-worth show up in your relationships? Have you experienced lack of intimacy, no sense...
Michaela Patel
Mar 11, 20184 min read
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UNPLUGGED FROM LOVE
Everyone wants love. And you want it too! It is your most basic need. An inherent part of you, something that you ARE. With the start of...
Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20183 min read
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PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS
What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...
Michaela Patel
Nov 12, 20174 min read
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RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
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SELF-LOVE BREAKDOWN 1
'Of course I love myself!' our mind tells us almost instantly when we are asked. We really think we DO love ourselves because 'Why not?...
Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
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WHY CRYING IS GOOD AND WHAT IS IMPATHY?
'I haven't cried Mummy because I am strong!' said my 5 year old son the other day. He was waiting for me to say 'WELL DONE, Sweetheart.'...
Michaela Patel
May 10, 20174 min read
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ESCAPING YOU
Have you been told you are NEEDY? Do you fear solitude, hating to be alone? There is a reason you prefer to be with your partner all the...
Michaela Patel
May 3, 20172 min read
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LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
Michaela Patel
Apr 26, 20172 min read
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UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 2
We are so eager to find a trustworthy partner, our Soulmate... We frantically seek someone who will love us because we dislike, even...
Michaela Patel
Apr 2, 20172 min read
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UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 1
How are we meant to feel loved when we reject ourselves few times a day? It starts as soon as we wake up and walk into the bathroom:...
Michaela Patel
Mar 26, 20173 min read
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LOVE ME PLEASE!
'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...
Michaela Patel
Feb 19, 20173 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 2
As adults, the fastest way to feel ACCEPTED is through sleeping with another. Physical touch, skin to skin contact, reminds us of the...
Michaela Patel
Dec 28, 20162 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
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DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE COMMUNICATION
What kind of space opens up for you when you come to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Expressing ourselves isn't always...
Michaela Patel
Nov 23, 20163 min read
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PAINFUL EMOTIONS?
We are rarely taught about our emotions at home. Oftentimes we are unable to even name what we feel due to emotional repression our...
Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20164 min read
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UNDERNEATH THE MASK OF LOVE
Are you looking to find true love? Do you know that the one thing keeping you from experiencing true love is fear? Lets look at a little...
Michaela Patel
Nov 2, 20164 min read
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HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
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I NEED YOU...
Dear Soulmate, I need to find YOU... because I lost ME. I NEED you to love me❤️... because I feel unloveable 💔 I NEED you to hear how...
Michaela Patel
Jul 26, 20163 min read
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