WHEN LOVE FEELS TOO SNUG: RECLAIMING YOUR RIGHTS AND A SENSE OF SELF WHEN BEING COERCIVELY CONTROLLED
Find out if you are being coercively controlled, reclaim your rights and a sense of self.
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Sep 146 min read
UNDERSTANDING THE REALITY OF MANIPULATION: WHY YOU ARE NOT THE CAUSE OF HIS ABUSE
Understand the reality of hidden abuse of women
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Michaela Patel
Sep 86 min read
THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
The dynamics of women dating an immature partner
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Michaela Patel
Aug 257 min read
HOW EASY IS IT TO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
An analysis of why it isn't easy to leave a chronically abusive relationship
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Michaela Patel
May 187 min read
UNCOVERING THE IDENTITIES OF VICTIMS AND PERPETRATORS OF COERCIVE CONTROL: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
Uncovering the identities of victims and perpetrators of coercive control: what you need to know
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Michaela Patel
Apr 1710 min read
ARE YOU BEING COERCIVELY CONTROLLED BY YOUR PARTNER?
Few years ago, I would have not understood such question. And even if I would have heard about the term I would have assumed it isn't...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 11, 20237 min read
DEALING WITH A HIGH CONFLICT PERSONALITY
A practical example of dealing with a high conflict, controlling personality.
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Michaela Patel
Nov 11, 20237 min read
ARE YOU DEALING WITH AN ENTITLED, DIFFICULT PERSON?
A deep dive into the psyche of an entitled, difficult person and how manipulation works the untrained mind.
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Michaela Patel
May 24, 20235 min read
TRANSACTIONAL LOVE - HOW IS CONDITIONAL RELATING AFFECTING OUR ABILITY TO LOVE OURSELVES
What is transactional love? Discern true love and its clear advantages!
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Michaela Patel
May 3, 20235 min read
HOW DOES EMOTIONAL NEGLECT SHOW UP IN RELATIONSHIPS?
What is childhood emotional neglect and how does it affect your ability to find a compatible partner?
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Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20236 min read
COVERT AGGRESSION 2
What is covert abuse and why are we prone to enmeshment with manipulative, controlling partners?
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Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20235 min read
COVERT AGGRESSION 1
What is covert control? What kind of partners do covert aggressors pick and why? What makes us prone to endure abuse?
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Michaela Patel
Jul 24, 20228 min read
WHY ME? - HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXICITY AND SAVE YOUR SANITY
It is highly likely that, you too, have experienced the feeling of being utterly stuck. Like no matter how hard you have tried with the...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20227 min read
POWER STRUGGLE - THE ENEMY OF LOVE
What are our personal rights and why do we struggle to find true love in relationships? How does empowered relating look like?
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Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20215 min read
SELF-LOVE COVER UP - WHAT SELF-LOVE ISN'T
Recently, I have noticed a number of bitter comments popping up on various self-help sites. Usually posted by people who have experienced...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20215 min read
ADMIRE THYSELF - WHY IS SELF-VALIDATION VITAL TO OUR HAPPINESS
Why is self-validation important to our happiness?
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Michaela Patel
Aug 28, 20206 min read
CONTROLLING RELATIONSHIPS - HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES
How does control and abuse come about? Restore your sanity and rescue your happiness!
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Michaela Patel
Aug 19, 20203 min read
PATRIARCHY HANDCUFFS - WHY IS PATRIARCHY BAD FOR EVERYONE
Why is patriarchy bad for everyone?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20205 min read
ARE YOU CO-DEPENDENT?
Are you addicted to the idea of love?
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Michaela Patel
Jan 13, 20204 min read
YOUR INNER COMPASS - REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
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