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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL OVER-FUNCTIONING AND ITS IMPACT ON EMPATHS
An exploration into how emotional over-functioning erodes connection in relationships.
Michaela Patel
Aug 237 min read
THE ILLUSION OF LOVE: WHY DO VICTIMS OF COERCIVE CONTROL HOPE THINGS WILL GET BETTER?
Learn why do the victims of coercive control get stuck in unhappiness, hoping things will improve.
Michaela Patel
Feb 97 min read
BRAINWASHED BY YOUR PARTNER: RECOGNISING COVERT ABUSE AND RECLAIMING YOUR TRUTH
Learn how to recognise covert manipulation in relationships and reclaim your truth.
Michaela Patel
Jan 57 min read
IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU FOR NOT WANTING TO BE INTIMATE?
Learn how traumatic relating suppresses your needs and desire for intimacy.
Michaela Patel
Jan 15 min read
HOW WE LOSE OURSELVES IN LYING AND HOW WE FIND OUR WAY BACK TO BEING AUTHENTIC
A deep exploration into how we lose ourselves in lying and how we find our way back to being authentic.
Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20245 min read
UNDERSTANDING THE REALITY OF MANIPULATION: WHY YOU ARE NOT THE CAUSE OF HIS ABUSE
Understand the reality of chronic abuse of women by covertly controlling men.
Michaela Patel
Sep 14, 20246 min read
THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
Uncover the complexities of women dating immature men, and why patriarchy is to blame for the lack of intimacy in relationships.
Michaela Patel
Sep 8, 20246 min read
AUTHENTICITY - THE WORD THAT MADE IT TO THE WORD OF THE YEAR
An exploration into how we have lost our truth, why it feels safe to pretend, and what is it costing us.
Michaela Patel
Feb 21, 20244 min read
HOOKED ONLINE - HOW WE PAY FOR MINDLESS SCROLLING
Why do we get hooked online and what does mindless scrolling cost us? How can we stop ourselves and why we need to?
Michaela Patel
Aug 16, 20236 min read
TRANSACTIONAL LOVE: HOW IS CONDITIONAL RELATING AFFECTING OUR ABILITY TO LOVE OURSELVES
What is transactional love? Discern true love and its clear advantages!
Michaela Patel
May 24, 20235 min read
BECOMING CONSCIOUS: WHAT IT REALLY MEANS?
Would you like to feel relaxed and free? It should be so simple, shouldn't it? We only need to find out what prevents us from BEING. What...
Michaela Patel
Apr 16, 20233 min read
COVERT AGGRESSION 1
What is covert control? What kind of partners do covert aggressors pick and why? What makes us prone to endure abuse?
Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20235 min read
HOW WE END UP PLACES BEING DISHONEST WITH OURSELVES
Do you dislike the situation you are in but, perhaps, pretend to like it? When we find ourselves in a situation we dislike it is wise to...
Michaela Patel
Jan 1, 20235 min read
OPINION - THE ENEMY OF CONNECTION
I find the incessant arguing and attacking each other on social media platforms thouroughly draining. It makes me sick to my core and I...
Michaela Patel
Sep 21, 20225 min read
EGOTISM - THE POLLUTED MIND
What is egotism and how it pollutes the society? How is oversimplified thinking threatening our peace?
Michaela Patel
Mar 6, 20224 min read
THE SHAPE OF YOU: CONFRONT YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
What shapes us mentally and spiritually to become who we are? How can we confront our beliefs, ourselves, and why should we?
Michaela Patel
Jan 15, 20216 min read
THE PRICE WE PAY: HOW CONSUMERISM DULLS OUR SOULS
Consumerism dulls our souls. Do you know your true value?
Michaela Patel
Oct 25, 20205 min read
MIND-THE-GAP: THE WAY OUT OF THE MIND'S MANY RABBIT HOLES
Are you stuck in a self-defeating cycle of thinking? The truth is, most of us are... 'Paranoia and self-loathing is like an imaginary dog...
Michaela Patel
Sep 30, 20205 min read
PATRIARCHY HANDCUFFS: WHY IS PATRIARCHY BAD FOR EVERYONE
Why is patriarchy bad for everyone?
Michaela Patel
Aug 19, 20203 min read
LOCKED IN FEAR: HOW TO REGAIN CONTROL AND REGULATE OUR RESPONSE TO FEAR
Some of us are more relaxed than others these days as the world has been tipped up side down... Aggression levels have risen...
Michaela Patel
Jul 16, 20205 min read
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