WHEN LOVE FEELS TOO SNUG: RECLAIMING YOUR RIGHTS AND A SENSE OF SELF WHEN BEING COERCIVELY CONTROLLED
Find out if you are being coercively controlled, reclaim your rights and a sense of self.
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
- Feb 21
- 4 min
AUTHENTICITY - THE WORD THAT MADE IT TO THE WORD OF THE YEAR
The expression many use to fit the purpose of appearing more credible in the world of rising collective consciousnes, but what it really...
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Michaela Patel
- Nov 11, 2023
- 7 min
DEALING WITH A HIGH CONFLICT PERSONALITY
A practical example of dealing with a high conflict, controlling personality.
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Michaela Patel
- May 24, 2023
- 5 min
TRANSACTIONAL LOVE - HOW IS CONDITIONAL RELATING AFFECTING OUR ABILITY TO LOVE OURSELVES
What is transactional love? Discern true love and its clear advantages!
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 1, 2023
- 5 min
HOW WE END UP PLACES BEING DISHONEST WITH OURSELVES
Do you dislike the situation you are in but, perhaps, pretend to like it? When we find ourselves in a situation we dislike it is wise to...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 21, 2022
- 5 min
OPINION - THE ENEMY OF CONNECTION
I find the incessant arguing and attacking each other on social media platforms thouroughly draining. It makes me sick to my core and I...
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 24, 2022
- 8 min
WHY ME? - HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXICITY AND SAVE YOUR SANITY
It is highly likely that, you too, have experienced the feeling of being utterly stuck. Like no matter how hard you have tried with the...
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 22, 2022
- 3 min
EMOTIONAL RAPE AND INVALIDATION
What is emotional rape and how does it affect us? Why is emotional validation vital to our wellbeing?
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 20, 2022
- 7 min
POWER STRUGGLE - THE ENEMY OF LOVE
What are our personal rights and why do we struggle to find true love in relationships? How does empowered relating look like?
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Michaela Patel
- Dec 3, 2021
- 5 min
THE ART OF SELF-DECEPTION - WHAT BURDENS OUR AUTHENTIC SOULS
What burdens our authentic souls? How exactly does our false Self operate to our disadvantage?
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 26, 2021
- 5 min
SELF-LOVE COVER UP - WHAT SELF-LOVE ISN'T
Recently, I have noticed a number of bitter comments popping up on various self-help sites. Usually posted by people who have experienced...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 17, 2021
- 7 min
OUR TRAUMAS AND HOW THEY AFFECT OUR SELF-ESTEEM
What is trauma, how can it change someone’s life, and what needs to happen for it to heal? Trauma is any experience which has altered the...
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 30, 2021
- 5 min
ADMIRE THYSELF - WHY IS SELF-VALIDATION VITAL TO OUR HAPPINESS
Why is self-validation important to our happiness?
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 15, 2021
- 6 min
THE SHAPE OF YOU - CONFRONT YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
What shapes us mentally and spiritually to become who we are? How can we confront our beliefs, ourselves, and why should we?
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 10, 2020
- 4 min
WOBBLY PARENTING - THE COMMON MISTAKES OF PARENTING AND HOW THEY SHAPE OUR CHILDREN
I am a loving, deeply caring, for most parts aware parent who every so often feels like total failure... Any truly responsible parent...
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 13, 2020
- 4 min
YOUR INNER COMPASS - REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
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Michaela Patel
- Dec 8, 2019
- 4 min
THE GENDER TRAP - MASCULINE AND FEMININE ENERGIES RE-EXAMINED
A gender is based on physical attributes of a human at birth. Nothing more. Our physical body is only a vehicle for the amazing plethora...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 11, 2019
- 5 min
WHERE IS THE TRUTH? - HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARE AND FAIR
What limits our ability to reach an agreement with our partner and when it is in our best interest to disengage?
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 1, 2019
- 5 min
UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIPS AND SELF-SABOTAGE - HOW DO WE UNKNOWINGLY SABOTAGE OUR HAPPINESS?
The topic of a relationship self-sabotage typically describes a conscious efforts of an individual to end a relationship. However, a...
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