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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
UNVEILING THE PARALLELS BETWEEN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH ABUSERS AND CULT EXPERIENCES
An exploration into the similarities between a coercively controlling relationship and being in a cult.
Michaela Patel
May 112 min read
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NAVIGATING CO-PARENTING AFTER LEAVING AN ABUSER-MANIPULATOR FROM A VICTIM PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE - PART 1
Exploration of the difficulties navigating leaving and co-parenting with a coercively controlling partner.
Michaela Patel
Apr 95 min read
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IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU FOR NOT WANTING TO BE INTIMATE?
Learn how traumatic relating suppresses your needs and desire for intimacy.
Michaela Patel
Jan 15 min read
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HOW WE LOSE OURSELVES IN LYING AND HOW WE FIND OUR WAY BACK TO BEING AUTHENTIC
A deep exploration into how we lose ourselves in lying and how we find our way back to being authentic.
Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20245 min read
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THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
Uncover the complexities of women dating immature men, and why patriarchy is to blame for the lack of intimacy in relationships.
Michaela Patel
Sep 8, 20246 min read
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AUTHENTICITY - THE WORD THAT MADE IT TO THE WORD OF THE YEAR
An exploration into how we have lost our truth, why it feels safe to pretend, and what is it costing us.
Michaela Patel
Feb 21, 20244 min read
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HOW DOES EMOTIONAL NEGLECT SHOW UP IN RELATIONSHIPS?
What is childhood emotional neglect and how does it affect your ability to find a compatible partner?
Michaela Patel
May 3, 20235 min read
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OPINION - THE ENEMY OF CONNECTION
I find the incessant arguing and attacking each other on social media platforms thouroughly draining. It makes me sick to my core and I...
Michaela Patel
Sep 21, 20225 min read
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WHY ME?: HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXICITY AND SAVE YOUR SANITY
It is highly likely that, you too, have experienced the feeling of being utterly stuck. Like no matter how hard you have tried with the...
Michaela Patel
Jul 24, 20228 min read
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EMOTIONAL RAPE AND INVALIDATION
What is emotional rape and how does it affect us? Why is emotional validation vital to our wellbeing?
Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20223 min read
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POWER STRUGGLE - THE ENEMY OF LOVE
What are our personal rights and why do we struggle to find true love in relationships? How does empowered relating look like?
Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20227 min read
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THE ART OF SELF-DECEPTION: WHAT BURDENS OUR AUTHENTIC SOULS
What burdens our authentic souls? How exactly does our false Self operate to our disadvantage?
Michaela Patel
Dec 3, 20215 min read
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SELF-LOVE COVER UP: WHAT SELF-LOVE ISN'T
Recently, I have noticed a number of bitter comments popping up on various self-help sites. Usually posted by people who have experienced...
Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20215 min read
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ADMIRE THYSELF: WHY IS SELF-VALIDATION VITAL TO OUR HAPPINESS
Why is self-validation important to our happiness?
Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20215 min read
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TOUGHEN YOUR CORE - NURTURE YOU
All actions ever taken by humans point either towards love, or the lack of it. The latter leads to hurt rollover for many generations and...
Michaela Patel
Apr 27, 20214 min read
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THE SHAPE OF YOU: CONFRONT YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
What shapes us mentally and spiritually to become who we are? How can we confront our beliefs, ourselves, and why should we?
Michaela Patel
Jan 15, 20216 min read
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THE PRICE WE PAY: HOW CONSUMERISM DULLS OUR SOULS
Consumerism dulls our souls. Do you know your true value?
Michaela Patel
Oct 25, 20205 min read
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YOUR THIRD EYE
Do you have a well functioning third eye?
Michaela Patel
May 5, 20203 min read
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ARE YOU CO-DEPENDENT?
Are you addicted to the idea of love?
Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20205 min read
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WOBBLY PARENTING: COMMON MISTAKES OF PARENTING AND HOW THEY SHAPE OUR CHILDREN
I am a loving, deeply caring, for most parts aware parent who every so often feels like total failure... Any truly responsible parent...
Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20204 min read
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