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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.

REPEATED CRUSHES

Have you ever found yourself in a painful situation which has repeated itself, involving similar kind of people with (yet again) negative...

Michaela Patel

Sep 17, 20173 min read

DARE TO BE DIFFERENT

Imagine your whole life you wore a pair of shades... ...but only now you found out about their existence. You are waking up to a...

Michaela Patel

Sep 5, 20174 min read

THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW

How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...

Michaela Patel

Aug 20, 20176 min read

POWERLESS REALITY?

Are you stuck in life? Do you wish things were different? Perhaps you like to learn how to change things and move on? Yes, our ability to...

Michaela Patel

Aug 2, 20173 min read

FINDING HAPPINESS 3

The next question you get to repeat to yourself many times from this point onwards is HOW or WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE so that it doesn't...

Michaela Patel

Jun 20, 20173 min read

FINDING HAPPINESS 2

Sometimes the best place to start is to realise that you don't know. That you don't even know who you are. That you don't understand love...

Michaela Patel

Jun 11, 20174 min read

FINDING HAPPINESS 1

A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...

Michaela Patel

Jun 4, 20174 min read

WHAT I TELL MY CHILD

You are great and awesome. You were born loving, kind and generous. If others try to tell you otherwise - don't believe them. You are not...

Michaela Patel

May 21, 20171 min read

SELF-LOVE BREAK DOWN 2

You admitted the TRUTH to yourself about you and others in your life... ...but your bravery is rewarded with some rather unpleasant...

Michaela Patel

May 17, 20173 min read

SELF-LOVE BREAKDOWN 1

'Of course I love myself!' our mind tells us almost instantly when we are asked. We really think we DO love ourselves because 'Why not?...

Michaela Patel

May 17, 20173 min read

LOVE COMES EASY 1

We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...

Michaela Patel

Apr 20, 20173 min read

UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 2

We are so eager to find a trustworthy partner, our Soulmate... We frantically seek someone who will love us because we dislike, even...

Michaela Patel

Apr 2, 20172 min read

YOUR DARK ANGEL

Only when we are brave enough to acknowledge and learn more about our DARK SIDE, we get closer to, and experience, our true nature. By...

Michaela Patel

Mar 19, 20173 min read

BOUNDARIES 2 - YOUR COMMUNICATION

You now know that in order to use the energy of your anger CORRECTLY you will need to stop taking it out on others, or on yourself by...

Michaela Patel

Mar 5, 20173 min read

LOVE YOUR TRIBE

What is your tribe like? Are your being unknowingly manipulated? Hate or love? Negativity or positivity? War or peace? Suffering or...

Michaela Patel

Feb 26, 20174 min read

LOVE ME PLEASE!

'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...

Michaela Patel

Feb 19, 20173 min read

'DO YOU LOVE ME?'

‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...

Michaela Patel

Feb 12, 20173 min read

REALITY CHECK

Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...

Michaela Patel

Jan 22, 20173 min read

SELF-QUESTIONING

Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...

Michaela Patel

Jan 11, 20172 min read

MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 2

When you have no desire, nor need, to justify your dos and don'ts to anyone but YOU, you have established a solid relationship with...

Michaela Patel

Dec 11, 20163 min read