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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.

THE SELF-LOVE ARROW

Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...

Michaela Patel

Apr 24, 20164 min read

AN APOLOGY TO MY BODY

My dearest Friend, I have a confession to make... I feel really guilty for how I have treated you all this time. I feel so so bad for how...

Michaela Patel

Apr 19, 20163 min read

RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH

Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...

Michaela Patel

Apr 14, 20163 min read

MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?

My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...

Michaela Patel

Mar 30, 20163 min read

INNER PEACE DE-CODED

It is so important to understand ourselves. To know WHAT WE FEEL. To recognise various emotional states against our emotional...

Michaela Patel

Mar 29, 20166 min read

QUESTION TRADITIONS

Do we owe our parents? How much of OUR LIFE do we have to give, to pay off our deeds to them for bringing us into this world? Yes, they...

Michaela Patel

Mar 24, 20164 min read

UNDERSTAND YOUR MIND TO GAIN A SENSE OF CONTROL

'Rule your mind or it will rule you' said the Buddha. But how? How can we stop our habitual thinking and take control over our...

Michaela Patel

Mar 23, 20165 min read

OUR MIND MISUNDERSTOOD

Our mind serves us. It provides us with the opportunity to learn from our past, and it enables us to become truly responsible for...

Michaela Patel

Mar 17, 20163 min read

THE BIRTH OF OUR WEAKNESS

Are men very different from women? And who is weaker? Some believe we are so different we could have come from different planets. 'Men...

Michaela Patel

Mar 16, 20164 min read

NORMALITY AND RELIGION

What is 'normal' ? ARE YOU NORMAL ? Are you aware that normality is dangerous ? When you are considered 'normal', you are put in a...

Michaela Patel

Mar 13, 20163 min read

DO YOU REALLY KNOW YOUR EGO?

One of my family members told me recently 'I don't have NO EGO!' She proclaimed that teaching self-love and self-respect is selfish,...

Michaela Patel

Mar 10, 20164 min read

NOW OR NEVER

Do you often think about what happened yesterday, or what someone said to you few days ago? Do you worry about what will be tomorrow?...

Michaela Patel

Mar 2, 20164 min read

UNDERSTANDING OUR DEMONS

How can we understand what drives us? How can we understand the side of us which brings us suffering? By bringing our subconscious...

Michaela Patel

Feb 26, 20163 min read

THE CONCEPT OF LOVE

Have you ever felt pain in connection with love ? Would you say that 'LOVE HURTS' ? If your answer is YES, I dare to say to you that you...

Michaela Patel

Feb 17, 20165 min read

LIFE LESSONS 1

Do you repeatedly experience similar situations in life? Where you get involved with similar types of people? Where you engage in similar...

Michaela Patel

Feb 10, 20162 min read

MY INTENTIONS

So I set up my new website…. I am excited to share my knowledge with a pure intention: to help you see YOUR struggle in mine. For you to...

Michaela Patel

Feb 5, 20163 min read

THE ROAD OF LIFE 1

How come some of us are happy, yet others are not, when we all started with the exact same potential? We all have the potential to be the...

Michaela Patel

Feb 4, 20163 min read

THE ROAD OF LIFE 2

So we FINALLY admit to ourselves that we have to find our way out of this mess. Out of this misery....unhappiness. But how?? We have to...

Michaela Patel

Feb 4, 20162 min read

VICTIM

The only way to a TRUE love is through honesty. Admitting that you feel hurt by life, that you feel somehow incomplete. The only way you...

Michaela Patel

Jan 27, 20163 min read

HELPING A NARCISSIST

It is UNHEALTHY to want to bond with an unhealthy person - mentally and emotionally. Spiritually, I guess, it is needed as a lesson to...

Michaela Patel

Jan 25, 20163 min read