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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
BLIND SPOTS
Blind spots are areas of our unawareness. We often THINK that we know how we are being, yet completely lacking insight. We could divide...
Michaela Patel
Jan 29, 20173 min read
REALITY CHECK
Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...
Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20173 min read
SELF-QUESTIONING
Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...
Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20172 min read
LOVEABILITY AND WORTH
We often judge, compare and criticise. To make ourselves feel better we put others down. What we don't realise is that we experience...
Michaela Patel
Dec 18, 20162 min read
TO THE INSECURE YOU
So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...
Michaela Patel
Dec 7, 20162 min read
CHASING ACCEPTANCE?
Number one HIDDEN INTENTION driving our behaviour is to feel accepted. Remember those first achievements and failures at school? Remember...
Michaela Patel
Nov 30, 20162 min read
PAINFUL EMOTIONS?
We are rarely taught about our emotions at home. Oftentimes we are unable to even name what we feel due to emotional repression our...
Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20164 min read
UNDERNEATH THE MASK OF LOVE
Are you looking to find true love? Do you know that the one thing keeping you from experiencing true love is fear? Lets look at a little...
Michaela Patel
Nov 2, 20164 min read
EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...
Michaela Patel
Oct 12, 20164 min read
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE SIMPLY MEANS BECOMING OUR BEST FRIEND. It start with changing the way we see and behave towards ourselves by...
Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20163 min read
HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
HEALING YOU 1
There is a conscious AND subconscious STORY we hold about the circumstances which led to us believing in our inadequacy. And they are...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20162 min read
BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
Michaela Patel
Aug 24, 20166 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 1
Parenting is very simple. Or it could be, if parents became PRESENT to how they act in the presence of their child. We think our children...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20162 min read
WHO IS TALKING?
How skilful are you in observing the TALKER in your head? Your life may not be the same after reading this. Our journey to self-love...
Michaela Patel
Jul 3, 20164 min read
KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
KARMA 1
Karma isn’t some religious concept but a very REAL occurrence altering our daily lives. I like to demonstrate how karma works on a story...
Michaela Patel
May 12, 20165 min read
THE SELF-LOVE ARROW
Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 24, 20164 min read
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