FLIRTING - THE GAME WITH A PLAN
Lets kick off this New Year with an almost ancient, nevertheless, ever-interesting topic which affects us all. Examining our hidden...
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Aug 22, 20183 min read
ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20183 min read
THE BEGINNING OF AN END
What happens when we approach the sell-by-date of our relationship? What decides on if we stay or move on? We tend to greatly hang on...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20173 min read
REALITY CHECK
Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 18, 20162 min read
LOVEABILITY AND WORTH
We often judge, compare and criticise. To make ourselves feel better we put others down. What we don't realise is that we experience...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 7, 20162 min read
TO THE INSECURE YOU
So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 30, 20162 min read
CHASING ACCEPTANCE?
Number one HIDDEN INTENTION driving our behaviour is to feel accepted. Remember those first achievements and failures at school? Remember...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20163 min read
FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
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Michaela Patel
May 22, 20165 min read
COMPULSION TO HELP 1
Do others confide in you? Do you happily consult them on their life troubles, because you understand their suffering? Knowing you can...
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Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
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Michaela Patel
May 12, 20165 min read
KARMA 1
Karma isn’t some religious concept but a very REAL occurrence altering our daily lives. I like to demonstrate how karma works on a story...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 29, 20166 min read
INNER PEACE DE-CODED
It is so important to understand ourselves. To know WHAT WE FEEL. To recognise various emotional states against our emotional...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 25, 20164 min read
WHERE ARE YOUR DEMONS HIDING?
Mindfulness/Awareness is knowing how our CONSCIOUS mind works. And not only that. It also means that we are aware of how our SUBCONSCIOUS...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 13, 20164 min read
HAPPINESS
What is happiness? It is a feeling deriving from experiencing joy, which fluctuates depending on our FOCUS. Our focus, and the source of...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20163 min read
LOOKING GOOD - THE ILLUSION OF WORTH
We love having more. Bigger! Better! Newer stuff. It makes us feel good about ourselves. Doing, having or looking ‘better than' others...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 1, 20162 min read
DRAMA 1
Lets face it, we are addicted to drama! It is just about everywhere on daily basis. Our addiction is a form of dissociation. Form of...
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