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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...
Michaela Patel
Oct 12, 20164 min read
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PRACTICING SELF-LOVE
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE SIMPLY MEANS BECOMING OUR BEST FRIEND. It start with changing the way we see and behave towards ourselves by...
Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20163 min read
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RELATIONSHIP BUBBLE
All we strive for, since a very young age, is to be in a relationship. We are driven by what relationship REPRESENTS, rarely questioning...
Michaela Patel
Aug 11, 20163 min read
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I NEED YOU...
Dear Soulmate, I need to find YOU... because I lost ME. I NEED you to love me❤️... because I feel unloveable 💔 I NEED you to hear how...
Michaela Patel
Jul 26, 20163 min read
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LOVE AND ATTENTION
Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...
Michaela Patel
Jul 16, 20164 min read
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THE INSECURE JUDGE
First mirrors, dated to around 6000BC, were just polished pieces of volcanic stones. Manufactured glass mirrors first appeared in Venice...
Michaela Patel
Jul 8, 20163 min read
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INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
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SELF-SEEKING
Attention seeking is a common insecurity. We like to be showered with attention, knowing OTHERS love us. The more attention we seek, the...
Michaela Patel
Jun 8, 20164 min read
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MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL
Do you think good looking people are happier? Think again! The advertising industry certainly hammers this into our subconscious daily,...
Michaela Patel
May 28, 20164 min read
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WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
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THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
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SELF-TALK ON LOVE & WORTH
A typical conversation of our insecure Self with our mature, wise Self, as most of us have experienced it. Which out of these two voices...
Michaela Patel
May 2, 20167 min read
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HIDING TRUE YOU?
We love to communicate through on-line social media when searching for new relationships. We prefer chatting to multiple people from our...
Michaela Patel
Apr 22, 20165 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 2
But then, one day sooner or later, comes a DISAGREEMENT. It may be a genuine, or a provoked one by the narcissist him/herself. You...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20165 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 1
Do you feel that you are the giver, the nurturer, and your partner the taker? Is the topic of your conversations often about them? Do you...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20164 min read
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EMOTIONS (S)KILL?
Being emotionally intelligent (EQ) is of a great advantage in communication with, and understanding, other human Beings. It is an...
Michaela Patel
Mar 20, 20167 min read
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FEAR NOT
"You are not your fear." What does it really mean? I asked myself. My fear comes from me, it is part of me....it must BE who I AM, no? If...
Michaela Patel
Mar 4, 20164 min read
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LOOKING GOOD - THE ILLUSION OF WORTH
We love having more. Bigger! Better! Newer stuff. It makes us feel good about ourselves. Doing, having or looking ‘better than' others...
Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20163 min read
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