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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.


INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
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ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP ADDICT?
I was by his side to make him happy. It was a self-imposed task my happiness depended on. I have voluntarily handed the permission to...
Michaela Patel
Jun 16, 20163 min read
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BORROWED LIFE PURPOSE
Most of what we own, has been owned by someone else before us, and will be owned by another the moment we leave this world. All that we...
Michaela Patel
Jun 12, 20164 min read
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MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL
Do you think good looking people are happier? Think again! The advertising industry certainly hammers this into our subconscious daily,...
Michaela Patel
May 28, 20164 min read
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WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
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KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
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THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
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SOUL ECOLOGY
Using our energy wisely is crucial for getting far. Far meaning feeling happy, and be precisely where we want to be. Anyone who wishes to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 30, 20164 min read
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RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
Michaela Patel
Apr 7, 20163 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 1
Do you feel that you are the giver, the nurturer, and your partner the taker? Is the topic of your conversations often about them? Do you...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20164 min read
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MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?
My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...
Michaela Patel
Mar 30, 20163 min read
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QUESTION TRADITIONS
Do we owe our parents? How much of OUR LIFE do we have to give, to pay off our deeds to them for bringing us into this world? Yes, they...
Michaela Patel
Mar 24, 20164 min read
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DO YOU REALLY KNOW YOUR EGO?
One of my family members told me recently 'I don't have NO EGO!' She proclaimed that teaching self-love and self-respect is selfish,...
Michaela Patel
Mar 10, 20164 min read
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FEAR NOT
"You are not your fear." What does it really mean? I asked myself. My fear comes from me, it is part of me....it must BE who I AM, no? If...
Michaela Patel
Mar 4, 20164 min read
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YOUR AWAKENING
Are you realising that you are NOT as happy you thought you were? Feeling as though you are not living YOUR life, but someone else's like...
Michaela Patel
Feb 20, 20165 min read
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HAPPINESS
What is happiness? It is a feeling deriving from experiencing joy, which fluctuates depending on our FOCUS. Our focus, and the source of...
Michaela Patel
Feb 13, 20164 min read
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LIFE LESSONS 2
Conditioning is a set of beliefs, FILTERS through which we view the world. First our parents made us believe things, shortly after that...
Michaela Patel
Feb 10, 20165 min read
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