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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.

'DO YOU LOVE ME?'

‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...

Michaela Patel

Feb 12, 20173 min read

EMOTION-LESS LEADER

To become a true leader one has to master oneself first on all levels. We are keen to understand our thought processes and use our mind...

Michaela Patel

Feb 5, 20173 min read

BLIND SPOTS

Blind spots are areas of our unawareness. We often THINK that we know how we are being, yet completely lacking insight. We could divide...

Michaela Patel

Jan 29, 20173 min read

REALITY CHECK

Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...

Michaela Patel

Jan 22, 20173 min read

SELF-QUESTIONING

Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...

Michaela Patel

Jan 11, 20172 min read

ARE YOU NICE?

'Nice' because you want to be liked, OR because it reflects who you truly are and how you deep down feel about yourself? Nice because you...

Michaela Patel

Jan 4, 20173 min read

LOVEABILITY AND WORTH

We often judge, compare and criticise. To make ourselves feel better we put others down. What we don't realise is that we experience...

Michaela Patel

Dec 18, 20162 min read

MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 2

When you have no desire, nor need, to justify your dos and don'ts to anyone but YOU, you have established a solid relationship with...

Michaela Patel

Dec 11, 20163 min read

MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1

Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...

Michaela Patel

Dec 11, 20163 min read

TO THE INSECURE YOU

So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...

Michaela Patel

Dec 7, 20162 min read

CHASING ACCEPTANCE?

Number one HIDDEN INTENTION driving our behaviour is to feel accepted. Remember those first achievements and failures at school? Remember...

Michaela Patel

Nov 30, 20162 min read

UNDERNEATH THE MASK OF LOVE

Are you looking to find true love? Do you know that the one thing keeping you from experiencing true love is fear? Lets look at a little...

Michaela Patel

Nov 2, 20164 min read

YOUR INNER TRUTH

Wisdom is a deep inner Truth. It is the voice of our Soul and has nothing to do with knowledge. We know and FEEL this truth as a deep...

Michaela Patel

Oct 22, 20163 min read

EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS

Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...

Michaela Patel

Oct 12, 20164 min read

THE MYTH OF FORGIVENESS

Forgiveness is an act of LOVE, as much as holding onto resentment is an act of FEAR. So let me explain... When we forgive, we say 'I...

Michaela Patel

Sep 20, 20162 min read

FEAR OR LOVE?

ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...

Michaela Patel

Sep 17, 20163 min read

HEALING YOU 2

I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...

Michaela Patel

Sep 6, 20164 min read

HEALING YOU 1

There is a conscious AND subconscious STORY we hold about the circumstances which led to us believing in our inadequacy. And they are...

Michaela Patel

Sep 6, 20162 min read

PEACEFUL REALITY

Would you like more peace in life starting right now? There are 3 things you can change with reading the last sentence of this article....

Michaela Patel

Aug 31, 20164 min read

BECOME YOUR THERAPIST

To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...

Michaela Patel

Aug 24, 20166 min read