EMOTION-LESS LEADER
To become a true leader one has to master oneself first on all levels. We are keen to understand our thought processes and use our mind...
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
- Jan 11, 2017
- 2 min
SELF-QUESTIONING
Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...
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Michaela Patel
- Jan 4, 2017
- 3 min
ARE YOU NICE?
'Nice' because you want to be liked, OR because it reflects who you truly are and how you deep down feel about yourself? Nice because you...
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Michaela Patel
- Dec 11, 2016
- 3 min
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1
Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...
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Michaela Patel
- Nov 23, 2016
- 3 min
DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE COMMUNICATION
What kind of space opens up for you when you come to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Expressing ourselves isn't always...
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Michaela Patel
- Nov 15, 2016
- 3 min
DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE RESPONSIBILITY
Relationships work as long as both partners want the same. When we are on the same page we feel we can take on the whole world together,...
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Michaela Patel
- Nov 9, 2016
- 4 min
PAINFUL EMOTIONS?
We are rarely taught about our emotions at home. Oftentimes we are unable to even name what we feel due to emotional repression our...
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Michaela Patel
- Oct 12, 2016
- 3 min
ARE YOU SMARTER THAN YOUR SMARTPHONE?
Is increasingly smart technology outsmarting us by taking away the power over our life and decision making? From bracelets telling us we...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 17, 2016
- 3 min
FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 24, 2016
- 6 min
BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
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Michaela Patel
- Jun 8, 2016
- 4 min
SELF-SEEKING
Attention seeking is a common insecurity. We like to be showered with attention, knowing OTHERS love us. The more attention we seek, the...
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Michaela Patel
- May 28, 2016
- 4 min
MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL
Do you think good looking people are happier? Think again! The advertising industry certainly hammers this into our subconscious daily,...
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Michaela Patel
- May 7, 2016
- 4 min
THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 27, 2016
- 4 min
WATCH OVER YOURSELF
The more you observe yourself the more of a habit it becomes. And the more you do that, the more you get to know yourself. If you do not...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 22, 2016
- 5 min
HIDING TRUE YOU?
We love to communicate through on-line social media when searching for new relationships. We prefer chatting to multiple people from our...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 14, 2016
- 4 min
RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 14, 2016
- 3 min
RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 7, 2016
- 3 min
RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
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Michaela Patel
- Mar 30, 2016
- 3 min
MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?
My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...
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Michaela Patel
- Mar 17, 2016
- 3 min
OUR MIND MISUNDERSTOOD
Our mind serves us. It provides us with the opportunity to learn from our past, and it enables us to become truly responsible for...
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