UNPLUGGED FROM LOVE
Everyone wants love. And you want it too! It is your most basic need. An inherent part of you, something that you ARE. With the start of...
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
- Oct 21, 2017
- 4 min
SETTING YOUR BOUNDARIES?
Think of an incident where someone has verbally attacked you, disrespected you, or has been plain RUDE to you. How have you dealt with...
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 11, 2017
- 5 min
THE POWER OF SURRENDER
Acceptance is an act of SELF-CARE. Accepting what IS is clearly advantageous, yet for many of us surrender represents a disadvantage or...
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 22, 2017
- 3 min
RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
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Michaela Patel
- Jun 28, 2017
- 4 min
POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?
How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...
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Michaela Patel
- Jun 4, 2017
- 4 min
FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 26, 2017
- 2 min
LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 20, 2017
- 3 min
LOVE COMES EASY 1
We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...
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Michaela Patel
- Mar 12, 2017
- 4 min
YOUR TRIGGERS
The one who triggers you the most is your biggest teacher. 'Really!?' you ask in disbelief. 'How can someone who makes me so mad teach me...
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Michaela Patel
- Mar 5, 2017
- 3 min
BOUNDARIES 3 - YOUR ANGER
Those whose boundaries have been consistently crashed on one end build a REACTIONARY boundary to overcompensate for the lack of space in...
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Michaela Patel
- Feb 19, 2017
- 3 min
LOVE ME PLEASE!
'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...
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Michaela Patel
- Oct 12, 2016
- 4 min
EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 26, 2016
- 3 min
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE SIMPLY MEANS BECOMING OUR BEST FRIEND. It start with changing the way we see and behave towards ourselves by...
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Michaela Patel
- Sep 6, 2016
- 4 min
HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
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Michaela Patel
- Aug 17, 2016
- 3 min
TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 30, 2016
- 4 min
EMOTIONAL COMA
Doctor: 'How may I help you?' Patient: 'I am in pain for some time now. I don't know what is WRONG with me but I am NOT FEELING OK!'...
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Michaela Patel
- Jul 16, 2016
- 4 min
LOVE AND ATTENTION
Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...
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Michaela Patel
- Jun 25, 2016
- 4 min
INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
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Michaela Patel
- May 14, 2016
- 6 min
KARMA 3
On one sunny morning, their daughter was born... After an initial excitement and when the novelty has worn off, their relationship...
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Michaela Patel
- Apr 24, 2016
- 4 min
THE SELF-LOVE ARROW
Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...
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