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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.

THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?

Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...

Michaela Patel

Jun 1, 20193 min read

EMOTIONAL RE-CYCLING - WHAT IS EMOTIONAL DUMPING AND HOW TO CLEAR OUR LIVES?

What is 'emotional garbage' and why are some of us stuck with mountains of it? What happens when we do not know how to permanently, and...

Michaela Patel

May 1, 20194 min read

THE JAR OF HEARTS 2 - HOW TO FILL UP YOURS?

First, you must re-define selfishness. So far you’ve been told (and believed!) that selfishness is putting you first. Yet, putting you...

Michaela Patel

May 23, 20183 min read

SELF-WORTH AND RELATIONSHIPS

Do you have a healthy self-esteem? How does low self-worth show up in your relationships? Have you experienced lack of intimacy, no sense...

Michaela Patel

Mar 11, 20184 min read

PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS

What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...

Michaela Patel

Nov 12, 20174 min read

YOUR ULTIMATE BETRAYAL

How often do you betray yourself? 'Oh what are you talking about!? I would never do that!' your Ego immediately articulates its...

Michaela Patel

Oct 8, 20172 min read

THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW

How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...

Michaela Patel

Aug 20, 20176 min read

RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE

Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...

Michaela Patel

Jul 22, 20173 min read

POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?

How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...

Michaela Patel

Jun 28, 20174 min read

FINDING HAPPINESS 3

The next question you get to repeat to yourself many times from this point onwards is HOW or WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE so that it doesn't...

Michaela Patel

Jun 20, 20173 min read

FINDING HAPPINESS 1

A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...

Michaela Patel

Jun 4, 20174 min read

ESCAPING YOU

Have you been told you are NEEDY? Do you fear solitude, hating to be alone? There is a reason you prefer to be with your partner all the...

Michaela Patel

May 3, 20172 min read

UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 2

We are so eager to find a trustworthy partner, our Soulmate... We frantically seek someone who will love us because we dislike, even...

Michaela Patel

Apr 2, 20172 min read

BOUNDARIES 3 - YOUR ANGER

Those whose boundaries have been consistently crashed on one end build a REACTIONARY boundary to overcompensate for the lack of space in...

Michaela Patel

Mar 5, 20173 min read

ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 2

As adults, the fastest way to feel ACCEPTED is through sleeping with another. Physical touch, skin to skin contact, reminds us of the...

Michaela Patel

Dec 28, 20162 min read

ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1

Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...

Michaela Patel

Dec 25, 20162 min read