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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.


THE GENDER TRAP: MASCULINE AND FEMININE ENERGIES RE-EXAMINED
A gender is based on physical attributes of a human at birth. Nothing more. Our physical body is only a vehicle for the amazing plethora...
Michaela Patel
Dec 8, 20194 min read


WHERE IS THE TRUTH? - HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARE AND FAIR
What limits our ability to reach an agreement with our partner and when it is in our best interest to disengage?
Michaela Patel
Sep 11, 20195 min read


UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIPS AND SELF-SABOTAGE - HOW DO WE UNKNOWINGLY SABOTAGE OUR HAPPINESS?
The topic of a relationship self-sabotage typically describes a conscious efforts of an individual to end a relationship. However, a...
Michaela Patel
Jul 1, 20195 min read


THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?
Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...
Michaela Patel
Jun 1, 20193 min read


EMOTIONAL RE-CYCLING - WHAT IS EMOTIONAL DUMPING AND HOW TO CLEAR OUR LIVES?
What is 'emotional garbage' and why are some of us stuck with mountains of it? What happens when we do not know how to permanently, and...
Michaela Patel
May 1, 20194 min read


WHY DO WE HAVE NIGHTMARES?
Why do we have nightmares and how we benefit from understanding their messages?
Michaela Patel
Apr 1, 20195 min read


FEELING NOT GOOD ENOUGH - HOW DO YOU GET IN YOUR WAY?
We so rely on them! The thoughts that make us feel good. All the motivational and positive messages fuel our joy and give us hope. But...
Michaela Patel
Feb 1, 20196 min read


FLIRTING - THE GAME WITH A PLAN
Lets kick off this New Year with an almost ancient, nevertheless, ever-interesting topic which affects us all. Examining our hidden...
Michaela Patel
Jan 1, 20193 min read


WHAT YOU REALLY WANT - HOW IS COPYING OTHERS MAKING US SUFFER
Why is it important to stop and re-evaluate our priorities? Why do we end up juggling so much? Can we ever achieve an inner freedom?
Michaela Patel
Nov 30, 20183 min read


ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
Michaela Patel
Aug 22, 20183 min read


UNDERSTANDING DEPRESSION
Many of us have been there. A dark, dark place. A long tunnel. So long that you cannot see the light at the end of it. You have no clue...
Michaela Patel
Mar 2, 20185 min read


THE SELFISHNESS OF SAYING 'NO'
Why do we find it hard to say 'NO' to others? In short, the answer is: Because saying 'YES' is our forte. Having practiced the same since...
Michaela Patel
Jan 10, 20183 min read


BREAKING NEWS
How often do you listen to the news? Daily? Hourly? Are you present to how does this very 'normal' activity alter your reality? We are...
Michaela Patel
Dec 17, 20174 min read


DO YOU DESERVE RESPECT?
Who doesn't like to be respected? But what IS respect and can we earn respect by reaching certain age or status? In the FALSE world of...
Michaela Patel
Nov 26, 20172 min read


PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS
What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...
Michaela Patel
Nov 12, 20174 min read


SETTING YOUR BOUNDARIES?
Think of an incident where someone has verbally attacked you, disrespected you, or has been plain RUDE to you. How have you dealt with...
Michaela Patel
Oct 21, 20174 min read


YOUR ULTIMATE BETRAYAL
How often do you betray yourself? 'Oh what are you talking about!? I would never do that!' your Ego immediately articulates its...
Michaela Patel
Oct 8, 20172 min read


MIND'S FOOL
Every bit of information we receive from the outside world gets filed away. Stored in our mind's library of beliefs it changes our...
Michaela Patel
Sep 24, 20173 min read


REPEATED CRUSHES
Have you ever found yourself in a painful situation which has repeated itself, involving similar kind of people with (yet again) negative...
Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20173 min read


DARE TO BE DIFFERENT
Imagine your whole life you wore a pair of shades... ...but only now you found out about their existence. You are waking up to a...
Michaela Patel
Sep 5, 20174 min read
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