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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20163 min read
HEALING YOU 1
There is a conscious AND subconscious STORY we hold about the circumstances which led to us believing in our inadequacy. And they are...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20162 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
LOVE AND ATTENTION
Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...
Michaela Patel
Jul 16, 20164 min read
THE INSECURE JUDGE
First mirrors, dated to around 6000BC, were just polished pieces of volcanic stones. Manufactured glass mirrors first appeared in Venice...
Michaela Patel
Jul 8, 20163 min read
WHO IS TALKING?
How skilful are you in observing the TALKER in your head? Your life may not be the same after reading this. Our journey to self-love...
Michaela Patel
Jul 3, 20164 min read
DO YOU LOVE... YOU ?
Do you love yourself? We would like to think so, wouldn't we? Yet thinking and DOING are two, very different activities. What we know...
Michaela Patel
Jun 23, 20166 min read
ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP ADDICT?
I was by his side to make him happy. It was a self-imposed task my happiness depended on. I have voluntarily handed the permission to...
Michaela Patel
Jun 16, 20163 min read
SELF-SEEKING
Attention seeking is a common insecurity. We like to be showered with attention, knowing OTHERS love us. The more attention we seek, the...
Michaela Patel
Jun 8, 20164 min read
THE 2 MINUTES OBSERVER MEDITATION
RELAX... Relax into who you are right now just for couple of minutes. Give yourself the gift of your time, out of self-love. You deserve...
Michaela Patel
Jun 2, 20163 min read
MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL
Do you think good looking people are happier? Think again! The advertising industry certainly hammers this into our subconscious daily,...
Michaela Patel
May 28, 20164 min read
OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
KARMA 1
Karma isn’t some religious concept but a very REAL occurrence altering our daily lives. I like to demonstrate how karma works on a story...
Michaela Patel
May 12, 20165 min read
THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
SELF-TALK ON LOVE & WORTH
A typical conversation of our insecure Self with our mature, wise Self, as most of us have experienced it. Which out of these two voices...
Michaela Patel
May 2, 20167 min read
SOUL ECOLOGY
Using our energy wisely is crucial for getting far. Far meaning feeling happy, and be precisely where we want to be. Anyone who wishes to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 30, 20164 min read
THE SELF-LOVE ARROW
Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 24, 20164 min read
HIDING TRUE YOU?
We love to communicate through on-line social media when searching for new relationships. We prefer chatting to multiple people from our...
Michaela Patel
Apr 22, 20165 min read
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