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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.


RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
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POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?
How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...
Michaela Patel
Jun 28, 20174 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 2
Sometimes the best place to start is to realise that you don't know. That you don't even know who you are. That you don't understand love...
Michaela Patel
Jun 11, 20174 min read
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YOUR DARK ANGEL
Only when we are brave enough to acknowledge and learn more about our DARK SIDE, we get closer to, and experience, our true nature. By...
Michaela Patel
Mar 19, 20173 min read
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PRACTICING SELF-LOVE
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE SIMPLY MEANS BECOMING OUR BEST FRIEND. It start with changing the way we see and behave towards ourselves by...
Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20163 min read
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BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
Michaela Patel
Aug 24, 20166 min read
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TURN UP YOUR SENSES
Having read the above you go 'Are you having a laugh?! Not in my situation. Forget it!' I hear you. And you are right. It cannot happen...
Michaela Patel
Aug 7, 20163 min read
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LIFE SHAKE-UP
Midlife crisis? Divorce? Anxiety? Panic attacks? Extreme dissatisfaction with life? Depression? Whatever you call it, it is your SOUL...
Michaela Patel
Jul 12, 20164 min read
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WHO IS TALKING?
How skilful are you in observing the TALKER in your head? Your life may not be the same after reading this. Our journey to self-love...
Michaela Patel
Jul 3, 20164 min read
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SUCCESS IN THE MOMENT
Happiness, like peace, is only achieved and felt in the moment as RIGHT NOW is all that exists. Long lasting happiness and peace, meaning...
Michaela Patel
Jun 29, 20164 min read
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INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
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SELF-TALK ON LOVE & WORTH
A typical conversation of our insecure Self with our mature, wise Self, as most of us have experienced it. Which out of these two voices...
Michaela Patel
May 2, 20167 min read
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WATCH OVER YOURSELF
The more you observe yourself the more of a habit it becomes. And the more you do that, the more you get to know yourself. If you do not...
Michaela Patel
Apr 27, 20164 min read
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HIDING TRUE YOU?
We love to communicate through on-line social media when searching for new relationships. We prefer chatting to multiple people from our...
Michaela Patel
Apr 22, 20165 min read
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RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 1
Do you feel that you are the giver, the nurturer, and your partner the taker? Is the topic of your conversations often about them? Do you...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20164 min read
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UNDERSTAND YOUR MIND TO GAIN A SENSE OF CONTROL
'Rule your mind or it will rule you' said the Buddha. But how? How can we stop our habitual thinking and take control over our...
Michaela Patel
Mar 23, 20165 min read
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OUR MIND MISUNDERSTOOD
Our mind serves us. It provides us with the opportunity to learn from our past, and it enables us to become truly responsible for...
Michaela Patel
Mar 17, 20163 min read
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THE BIRTH OF OUR WEAKNESS
Are men very different from women? And who is weaker? Some believe we are so different we could have come from different planets. 'Men...
Michaela Patel
Mar 16, 20164 min read
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