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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20163 min read
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HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
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HEALING YOU 1
There is a conscious AND subconscious STORY we hold about the circumstances which led to us believing in our inadequacy. And they are...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20162 min read
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BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
Michaela Patel
Aug 24, 20166 min read
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TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
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TRUE REFLECTION 1
Parenting is very simple. Or it could be, if parents became PRESENT to how they act in the presence of their child. We think our children...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20162 min read
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EMOTIONAL COMA
Doctor: 'How may I help you?' Patient: 'I am in pain for some time now. I don't know what is WRONG with me but I am NOT FEELING OK!'...
Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20164 min read
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I NEED YOU...
Dear Soulmate, I need to find YOU... because I lost ME. I NEED you to love me❤️... because I feel unloveable 💔 I NEED you to hear how...
Michaela Patel
Jul 26, 20163 min read
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LIFE SHAKE-UP
Midlife crisis? Divorce? Anxiety? Panic attacks? Extreme dissatisfaction with life? Depression? Whatever you call it, it is your SOUL...
Michaela Patel
Jul 12, 20164 min read
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THE INSECURE JUDGE
First mirrors, dated to around 6000BC, were just polished pieces of volcanic stones. Manufactured glass mirrors first appeared in Venice...
Michaela Patel
Jul 8, 20163 min read
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INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
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DO YOU LOVE... YOU ?
Do you love yourself? We would like to think so, wouldn't we? Yet thinking and DOING are two, very different activities. What we know...
Michaela Patel
Jun 23, 20166 min read
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COMPULSION TO HELP 2
I have lived most of my life unaware of my ability. I didn't know I am highly empathic. I thought the way I feel is no different to...
Michaela Patel
May 25, 20164 min read
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KARMA 3
On one sunny morning, their daughter was born... After an initial excitement and when the novelty has worn off, their relationship...
Michaela Patel
May 14, 20166 min read
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THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
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SOUL ECOLOGY
Using our energy wisely is crucial for getting far. Far meaning feeling happy, and be precisely where we want to be. Anyone who wishes to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 30, 20164 min read
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AN APOLOGY TO MY BODY
My dearest Friend, I have a confession to make... I feel really guilty for how I have treated you all this time. I feel so so bad for how...
Michaela Patel
Apr 19, 20163 min read
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RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
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