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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
YOUR GUARDIAN ANGER
ANGER is such an everyday emotion. Yet we rarely know what to do with it. Similar to holding a loaded gun we often shoot ourselves in the...
Michaela Patel
Apr 9, 20174 min read
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BOUNDARIES 1 - YOUR KNOWLEDGE
Our carers were the creators (and destroyers, surprise-surprise!) of our boundaries, of what we allow and what we absolutely don't. For...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20172 min read
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LOVE YOUR TRIBE
What is your tribe like? Are your being unknowingly manipulated? Hate or love? Negativity or positivity? War or peace? Suffering or...
Michaela Patel
Feb 26, 20174 min read
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'DO YOU LOVE ME?'
‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...
Michaela Patel
Feb 12, 20173 min read
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REALITY CHECK
Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...
Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20173 min read
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SELF-QUESTIONING
Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...
Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20172 min read
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THE MYTH OF FORGIVENESS
Forgiveness is an act of LOVE, as much as holding onto resentment is an act of FEAR. So let me explain... When we forgive, we say 'I...
Michaela Patel
Sep 20, 20162 min read
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FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20163 min read
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HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
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HEALING YOU 1
There is a conscious AND subconscious STORY we hold about the circumstances which led to us believing in our inadequacy. And they are...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20162 min read
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BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
Michaela Patel
Aug 24, 20166 min read
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LIFE SHAKE-UP
Midlife crisis? Divorce? Anxiety? Panic attacks? Extreme dissatisfaction with life? Depression? Whatever you call it, it is your SOUL...
Michaela Patel
Jul 12, 20164 min read
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DO YOU LOVE... YOU ?
Do you love yourself? We would like to think so, wouldn't we? Yet thinking and DOING are two, very different activities. What we know...
Michaela Patel
Jun 23, 20166 min read
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IN-TUITION - YOUR BEST FRIEND
What is intuition? It is a subconscious KNOWING we become aware of consciously in a split second, without understanding logically how. To...
Michaela Patel
Jun 19, 20163 min read
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BORROWED LIFE PURPOSE
Most of what we own, has been owned by someone else before us, and will be owned by another the moment we leave this world. All that we...
Michaela Patel
Jun 12, 20164 min read
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OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
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WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
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RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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INNER PEACE DE-CODED
It is so important to understand ourselves. To know WHAT WE FEEL. To recognise various emotional states against our emotional...
Michaela Patel
Mar 29, 20166 min read
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