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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
PEACEFUL REALITY
Would you like more peace in life starting right now? There are 3 things you can change with reading the last sentence of this article....
Michaela Patel
Aug 31, 20164 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 1
Parenting is very simple. Or it could be, if parents became PRESENT to how they act in the presence of their child. We think our children...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20162 min read
SUCCESS IN THE MOMENT
Happiness, like peace, is only achieved and felt in the moment as RIGHT NOW is all that exists. Long lasting happiness and peace, meaning...
Michaela Patel
Jun 29, 20164 min read
THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
SELF-TALK ON LOVE & WORTH
A typical conversation of our insecure Self with our mature, wise Self, as most of us have experienced it. Which out of these two voices...
Michaela Patel
May 2, 20167 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 2
But then, one day sooner or later, comes a DISAGREEMENT. It may be a genuine, or a provoked one by the narcissist him/herself. You...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20165 min read
PROTECT YOUR HAPPINESS
We teach others how we like to be treated, what we accept, and what we don't. It sounds easy and straightforward, but is it really that...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20164 min read
FEAR NOT
"You are not your fear." What does it really mean? I asked myself. My fear comes from me, it is part of me....it must BE who I AM, no? If...
Michaela Patel
Mar 4, 20164 min read
NARCISSIST - YOUR GREATEST TEACHER
All the people in our life are meant to teach us a lesson. Any painful experiences, translated into our emotions as unpleasant, are meant...
Michaela Patel
Feb 27, 20163 min read
NARCISSIST'S MASK
His GUILT was due to an indent in his mask of perfection. All guilt was because it was pointing to the defects in his image of a NICE...
Michaela Patel
Jan 26, 20162 min read
HELPING A NARCISSIST
It is UNHEALTHY to want to bond with an unhealthy person - mentally and emotionally. Spiritually, I guess, it is needed as a lesson to...
Michaela Patel
Jan 25, 20163 min read
MIRROR
Unhealthy relationship = unhealthy relationship with oneself Drama in a relationship is just a symptom of how unhealthy such...
Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20162 min read
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