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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP ADDICT?
I was by his side to make him happy. It was a self-imposed task my happiness depended on. I have voluntarily handed the permission to...
Michaela Patel
Jun 16, 20163 min read
OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
KARMA 3
On one sunny morning, their daughter was born... After an initial excitement and when the novelty has worn off, their relationship...
Michaela Patel
May 14, 20166 min read
KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
THE SELF-LOVE ARROW
Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 24, 20164 min read
HIDING TRUE YOU?
We love to communicate through on-line social media when searching for new relationships. We prefer chatting to multiple people from our...
Michaela Patel
Apr 22, 20165 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
Michaela Patel
Apr 7, 20163 min read
LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 2
But then, one day sooner or later, comes a DISAGREEMENT. It may be a genuine, or a provoked one by the narcissist him/herself. You...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20165 min read
LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 1
Do you feel that you are the giver, the nurturer, and your partner the taker? Is the topic of your conversations often about them? Do you...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20164 min read
PROTECT YOUR HAPPINESS
We teach others how we like to be treated, what we accept, and what we don't. It sounds easy and straightforward, but is it really that...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20164 min read
THE CONCEPT OF LOVE
Have you ever felt pain in connection with love ? Would you say that 'LOVE HURTS' ? If your answer is YES, I dare to say to you that you...
Michaela Patel
Feb 17, 20165 min read
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