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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.

FLIRTING - THE GAME WITH A PLAN

Lets kick off this New Year with an almost ancient, nevertheless, ever-interesting topic which affects us all. Examining our hidden...

Michaela Patel

Jan 1, 20193 min read

SELF-WORTH AND RELATIONSHIPS

Do you have a healthy self-esteem? How does low self-worth show up in your relationships? Have you experienced lack of intimacy, no sense...

Michaela Patel

Mar 11, 20184 min read

THE SELFISHNESS OF SAYING 'NO'

Why do we find it hard to say 'NO' to others? In short, the answer is: Because saying 'YES' is our forte. Having practiced the same since...

Michaela Patel

Jan 10, 20183 min read

BREAKING NEWS

How often do you listen to the news? Daily? Hourly? Are you present to how does this very 'normal' activity alter your reality? We are...

Michaela Patel

Dec 17, 20174 min read

POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?

How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...

Michaela Patel

Jun 28, 20174 min read

ESCAPING YOU

Have you been told you are NEEDY? Do you fear solitude, hating to be alone? There is a reason you prefer to be with your partner all the...

Michaela Patel

May 3, 20172 min read

LOVE COMES EASY 2

Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...

Michaela Patel

Apr 26, 20172 min read

LOVE COMES EASY 1

We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...

Michaela Patel

Apr 20, 20173 min read

UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 2

We are so eager to find a trustworthy partner, our Soulmate... We frantically seek someone who will love us because we dislike, even...

Michaela Patel

Apr 2, 20172 min read

EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS

Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...

Michaela Patel

Oct 12, 20164 min read

LOVE AND ATTENTION

Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...

Michaela Patel

Jul 16, 20164 min read

WHY DO WE CHEAT?

Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...

Michaela Patel

May 16, 20163 min read

NOW OR NEVER

Do you often think about what happened yesterday, or what someone said to you few days ago? Do you worry about what will be tomorrow?...

Michaela Patel

Mar 2, 20164 min read

THE ROAD OF LIFE 1

How come some of us are happy, yet others are not, when we all started with the exact same potential? We all have the potential to be the...

Michaela Patel

Feb 4, 20163 min read

HELPING A NARCISSIST

It is UNHEALTHY to want to bond with an unhealthy person - mentally and emotionally. Spiritually, I guess, it is needed as a lesson to...

Michaela Patel

Jan 25, 20163 min read

LOVE?

Can I ever love anyone the way I used to? The 'over the heels', head spinning, 'focus-on-him-forgetting me' kind of love? No. It was...

Michaela Patel

Jan 22, 20161 min read